More factual information informing people what happens online behind the screen names- be careful what you do. And if you’re being bullied, tell someone, block someone, and have them trown out!

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Have you ever felt as if the only way to feel better was to put others down, to discriminate, and inflict emotional damage on others using verbal comments and threats? When growing up in my life I’ve only believed the rules of social acceptance was only based on you attitude towards other- the way you treat others; narrows down groups of people that like the personal agenda you put out. Weather you’re the type to protest against anything, or join anyone.  Either to fit in or stand out, it depends on you personality-

I personally enjoy being loud and protesting my opinions weather it be towards myself or another. I take all my statements to the point of taken seriously. And  hopefully others take it seriously as well, what they do with it is their choice. They could hate it; or love it. 

But here’s my question, why do people constantly ‘bully’ others? Either using they do it at home, school, online and just generally anywhere. I want to know why people do this? It humors me that people can sit at home in the dark and ‘troll’ about how they feel and using freedom of speech as an excuse, and use that silly screen name to hide themselves from being caught. I’d rather be told I’m a stupid bitch to my face then online. I mean seriously the only thing their hiding from is my acttions to that comment (not saying that I would kick their ass, no matter how much I want too) But think about it. It’s a pattern- I’ve seen so many people hurt from constant cyber bullying. Especially on ‘YouTube’ young children that enjoy making small slide shows and videos, because they  enjoy doing it- and these creeps just comment and hate on these kids. Recently I watched a girl in tears in a video explaining why she didn’t like the fact people commented telling her she was a- CUNT, FATASS, and everything in the book. This young girl; not even in her teen years, was being called such horrindous names. And it kills me because she verberaly said the words these people said in the comments. 

I want to know why people think it okay for them to do that? I mean it’s okay to state an opinion, but threats? discusting comments? Why do that? It doesn’t appeal to anyone other then people like them. Not to long ago I dated a ‘what’ seemed to be nice guy.  We got along quit well and I thought it would nice if we connected through several sites that we take an enjoyment- I followed him through tweeter and he as well interested me in several sites tha I should follow and friend him in; later on I watched his actions online. A side of him showed itself, and I did not enjoy it. He made several hate comments on a few gay friends of mine- not thinking I would see it. And many blogs of his ideas on how much he ‘hated’ his nephew for opening up to his homosexuality. 

I found out that he was against different racial authenticity from dating and marriage. And he also enjoys sending hate mail to people that piss him off. Obliviously the relationship didn’t last, but seeing this dramatic change in personality in people you know in love through the internet is rather shocking to me. Some people whom appear kind- could turn out the ugliest through a simple screen name. 

Please tell me how you feel about this.